The problem narcissistic

What is meant by narcissistic problems? For the past few years, maybe more than half a century, we live in a society where image prevails over the other social and personal values. In the past quarter century, the veneration of the image of power has increased, due among other factors, excessive technical mastery of distance and cold; an accelerated pace, a culture centered on the outside in consumption and competition where it matters most to do that being a devitalized system of values ​​and ethics, but with an eroticization of economic success, sex and fame. The social struggle between men and women gain an equal position and steals dismembered the family time to privacy. Employed mothers have less availability to raise their children and stress depletes the channel of vitality and tenderness.

In this context, people complain of breakdowns in self-image, difficulties of individuation, difficult to love, dissatisfaction in relation to others, feelings of emptiness and alienation. Are people whose concern is inflation of his ego with the strengthening of a grandiose self. To develop this operation need to build a rigid shell, which will avoid falling into an unbearable terror and distress.

One of the most important in helping these people, once they have built a good relationship is the unmasking of the false "self." When the child is still man unjustly attacked by their family, will feel hurt and unable to express their grief will retract, and if the power is acorazará aggression persists.

Extracted from the article "Narcissism versus I hurt"

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